After scheduling my consultation, I was overwhelmed with excitement. I was finally taking a step towards something I've wanted to do for so long. But there's always a downfall. I had to tell my mom and dad, friends, family and co-workers about my decision. I knew that I was definitely going to get this done so I confided in the people I encounter with regularly so they won't be shocked when they see me and I have boobs. The hardest part was telling my parents, although they know Ive wanted to do this for a while. It is still hard to hear as a parent that your child is not happy with what you gave them. Of coarse, they were both against it but knew it was my decision. My mom told me she wanted to go with me and I agreed. While telling the people close to me, I heard so many different opinions. Some were against it, and some were for it because they knew how happy it would make me. WARNING FOR WOMEN CONSIDERING THIS PROCEDURE: You will face criticism and negative attention and comments if you decide to get breast implants. But if you are doing it for the right reasons, the judgement should not affect your decision. The right reasons may differ between patients but if your not doing it for a guys attention, or to look like Pamela Anderson; then you should be able to handle others opinions.
My reasoning for getting breast implants is 100% for me. I do not want to impress a guy, or get any more attention. I want to feel confident about myself for myself. I want to look in the mirror and feel like a women. I want my upper body to be proportionate to my lower body.
Preparing for my consultation also consisted of a lot of researching the surgery so I tell the surgeon exactly what I wanted. I also wrote down multiple questions to ask the surgeon to see if he is the right surgeon for me.
My feelings: anxious, nervous, excited.
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